The Difference a Year Makes


About a year ago, I cleaned myself up, put on some high heels and went to a book launch.  I went with a friend who knew I had aspirations to be a writer; he thought it might be interesting for me to attend a launch, see all the work that goes into publicizing a book after it is published.  In attendance there were bloggers, publishers, a literary agent or two, and the author’s legion of friends, family and well-wishers.

As I was introduced around the room, invariably the question came up, “What do you do?”  And I flubbed it.  You know when you’ve completely flubbed something when the person you are talking to – his or her eyes start to wander within 10 seconds of you starting to speak.  “I’m trying to be a writer,” I said to one.  Knowing that wasn’t right, I tried again with the next person: “I’m a writer – just starting out, you know…”  Oh God, with every introduction, I sank a little further into the floor.  Finally, the last time I managed to choke out, “I’m a writer…”  which led to the natural response, “Oh, what do you write?”  My desperate response was, “I’ll write anything.”


Fast forward to last weekend.  I attended a birthday party for a neighbour – there were approximately 40,000 people of all walks of life crammed into their house.  I knew exactly three of those people, including my husband.  A woman leaned into my ear and screamed over the music, “What do you do?”  I screamed back, huge smile on my face, “I’m a WRITER!”  She then followed up with “What do you write?” and I hollered back, “FICTION!”  “WOW!!” she bellowed.  “THAT IS SO COOL!”  Her husband caught up to the conversation and I excitedly talked/yelled about all the things I am working on, the classes I’ve taken, along with amusing anecdotes about what a hermit I am.  Several other people overheard (Lord knows how – the music was stupendously loud) and we all engaged in an enthusiastic, if brief, conversation about writing, favourite books and so on.

What a difference a year makes.  Not just a year but a year of nonstop, concerted, focused (more or less) writing.  I am living the life.   I’ve written not only fiction but have posted close to 90 blog posts on WordPress.  I have done a bit of freelance editing.  And, I’ve come to realize that I don’t need to whisper about being a writer because I’m not a “published author.”  I’ve had one short story published in this year, and there’s more where that came from…I am a writer, by God.  There is determination and confidence.  I have a sense of purpose.   I show my work to total strangers now.  Braver still, I show my work to my  family and my in-laws.

That is not to say that I don’t still have paralyzing moments of self doubt; I totally do.  I recently trashed 230 pages of a first novel attempt because it was boring me to tears – Jeez, if it bored me to tears, it would most likely put anyone else who read it in a coma – but I now realize that this is not unusual, I am not a freak.  The past is littered with the full trashcans of writers pitching stuff – going back to quill and parchment days.  Maybe even cave dwellers threw sabretooth tiger dung on some of their scratchings…

I’ve come a long way.  I have a long way to go.  At least now, I know where I’m going which is a huge improvement from last year!


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